Just Show Up

July 29, 2017 by Charlie Hedges − 6 Comments

“Okay,” the nurse informed me, “you’ll need shots for Hepatitis A and B, Yellow Fever and pills for Malaria.” Geez. You’d think I was Indiana Jones heading out on some trek through the deepest jungles of Africa. On second thought, I was, indeed, headed for several outlying villages in Africa. But I’m flying Business Class. Doesn’t that mean anything to mosquitoes? Like I’m important or something?

And to think that only six months ago I was whining about post-retirement boredom. After two years of trying to figure out how to carry on with passion and purpose I think I have found a solution: Be patient and pay attention, always with an eye for opportunity. Then when the right prospect comes along, Just Show Up!

The World and Water

Recently I invited Nick Jordan, Founder of Wells of Life, to chat with me on my podcast, The Next Chapter with Charlie. A plethora of information is easy to find regarding the use of unclean water in the world, resulting in death or serious disease. For instance, the World Health Organization (WHO) reports that by 2025 one-half the world’s population will be living in water-stressed areas.

“Charlie, did you know the average woman in Uganda walks six hours every day to bring jugs of dirty water back home to her village?” Nick advised us. “In addition the girls are forced to tag along to gather firewood. That means no women to take care of the villages (as if the men would do that) and only boys are in school.”

Unacceptable! But that, indeed, is life in the 3rd World.

Changing Village Lives

He told us that for a bit of cash we could build a well in Uganda that would bring clean water to 1000 people for twenty-five years. Clean water not only saves lives it also radically changes the lives of entire villages, especially the women and younger girls.

Considering that my family’s charity is directed toward women, children and education this was a no-brainer. We built four wells, with more to come. So in at least four villages women are back home and the girls are in school.

Documentary Maker

Now, I’ll soon be on my way to Uganda to view our wells and film my first documentary. Yea, I am taking some gear to film with my iPhone—a stabilizer to mount the phone camera to prevent unsteadiness, a microphone, and a self-taught lesson on iMovie to edit the 2-4 minute piece.

If I’ve learned anything in 67 years it is to never say no to something I want to do just because I’ve never done it before. What’s the worse that could happen: I could totally fail and waste a couple hundred bucks. Where’s the big deal? The most likely scenario is that I will figure it out and produce a short video that Wells of Life could use to promote their worthy cause.

I’ll just show up and let what happens happen.

That’s the key isn’t it? It’s merely a matter of ignoring the fear of failure, embarrassment or incompetence. If nothing else it will make for a good story. Actually where is growth and maturity if not for failure, embarrassment and incompetence?

Experimenting in Older Age

Why is it that the older I get the more experimental I get? As I see it there are three primary choices to older life (if you are healthy): (1) Sit around watching TV and complain that your life is boring and unfulfilling, (2) live a rich and bountiful life with family and friends, or (3) to try new and crazy things that might have never occurred to you in the years you were raising a family and working.

I’m hard-wired to do a bit of number 2 and a lot of number 3. I started painting at 60 years old, starting traveling with intent to learning about other cultures at 62 and now documentary making at 67. I’ve concluded that I am in the Autumn Season of life when I still have energy, curiosity, and appreciation of beauty. However it did take me a couple years to put it all together. I was most familiar with a business schedule that ultimately provided my meaning in life. That had to change in this ridiculous thing called retirement. I didn’t retire. I merely discovered new ways to bring me fulfillment.

Why not Just show Up? I’ve little to lose and the world to gain.

The theory works.

Be Patient, Pay Attention, and

Always Keep an Eye Open for Opportunity

Photo Courtesy of XXX at istockphoto

6 thoughts on “Just Show Up”

  1. This is really cool, Charlie! I look forward to hearing all about how it goes. Have a great trip!

    1. Thank Bill. There will certainly be plenty of new content on its way this Sept. I appreciate your support.

  2. Thanks Charlie –
    I’m proud of you and of the ability you have to follow your heart. Wells of life will give that beating heart of your a very big massage in the 8 days you spend in rural Uganda. Your voice matters and soon it will be used on behalf of the thousands that sadly have no voice of their own to say ” please may I have a drink of water”…

    1. Nick you are the man that follows his heart. You are an inspiration and I am honored to be part of Wells of Life. This project fills all three of our personal family goals of impacting the world. May your tribe increase!

  3. I’ve never heard of you before this link was sent to me this morning by a close friend, but I feel like I know you very well. I also support Wells of Life in the capacity I am able and it rewarding work and has given me more than I have given the charity—hands down!

    I hope to meet you some day in the near future! You are an inspiring “older” man! Thank you for brightening my day and making me think more about ‘Being patient and paying attention, always with an eye for opportunity’

    1. Patty. What kind words. Thank you. Wells of Life is the real thing! I hope you are attending the event this coming Monday. If so, please look me up. Blessings. Charlie

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