Life of Awe

Archetypes: 4 Options for Survival

April 7, 2018 by Charlie Hedges − 3 Comments

“Four Survival Archetypes are the only archetypes that every single person encompasses in themselves. We at some point in our lives open ourselves to the negative and positive sides of these archetypes – Child, Victim, Saboteur, & Prostitute.” Louisa Mitchell

When Your Back is in a Corner
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The Human Soul is Hungry for Beauty

February 3, 2018 by Charlie Hedges − 2 Comments

The human soul is hungry for beauty; we seek it everywhere – in landscape, music, art, clothes, furniture, gardening, companionship, love, religion, and in ourselves… When we experience the beautiful, there is a sense of homecoming.” John O’Donohue 

He was around four years old when I introduced my son, Austin, to sunsets. We were driving up Laguna Canyon Road when I looked in the side view mirror only to be stunned by one of “those” sunsets. You know the kind I mean—the ones that are quite literally breathtaking.
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The Magic of Mindful Walking

October 21, 2017 by Charlie Hedges − 2 Comments

“Mindful walking is a dreamlike experience.” Andy Puddicombe, Headspace

While in Buenos Aires Pam and I took two days from our holiday to fly to a tiny city called Igauzu to see the famous water falls which more than rival Niagara. In fact on some lists the Igauzu Water Falls are considered one of the seven natural wonders of the world.
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Some Truths are Beyond Mathematics

September 23, 2017 by Charlie Hedges − 2 Comments

…there are limits to how much of reality mathematical logic can grasp — some truths many have intuited but none have substantiated.” Janna Levin, Tow Professor of Physics and Astronomy at Barnard College of Columbia University

It seems that in the 20th and 21st centuries a new god has arisen in the minds of many very intelligent people. This new god even has a name: Mathematics. In the minds of many, if a concept cannot be proven mathematically is cannot be true but only conceived of as true. Personally I find this troubling.

The Wonder of Science

Now please understand, I love science and the “truths” that have been proven by math. Most of our physical wonders are the result of great science and great math: astrophysics, knowledge of the universe and maybe even creation can be proven by mathematics. Bridges and buildings and transportation and currency and a plethora of others would not even exist without mathematical truths. Yes, I love science.

But science and math are useless when it comes to love and kindness and charity. There is no formula for jealousy; cause and effect, yes, but not math.

UnProvable Truths

Apart from love the most wondrous truth in the world cannot be proven but the truth of its existence is undeniable. That truth is Beauty. Few things move me more truthfully than Beauty and Wonder and Awe. I am bowled over by the awe I feel underneath a sky full of stars and planets and comets. Yes, their existence can be proven by math, but not the truthful feeling I get when I see them.

Of the stars Janna Levin, writes…

There are faint stars in the night sky that you can see, but only if you look to the side of where they shine. They burn too weakly or are too far away to be seen directly, even if you stare. But you can see them out of the corner of your eye because the cells on the periphery of your retina are more sensitive to light. Maybe truth is just like that. You can see it, but only out of the corner of your eye.

I like that thought: truth is often something you can only see “out of the corner of your eye.” I think an appropriate word for “the corner of your eye” is your “gut.” There are many things you know to be truthful, but you cannot “prove” them, yet they exist strongly in your gut.

I Dare You to Prove Love

Love is a universal truth that cannot be proven mathematically. Yet no one will deny its reality. For me, God exists. I cannot prove God’s existence mathematically, yet it is a truth I cannot dismiss. I have tried and failed to dismiss this most important of all truths. But I have concluded that God is Creator, Intervener and the Source of all that is good.

God remains a most important truth in my life. The notion of God explains the truths of life, the universe and everything.

Such is the truth of many Truths. Although their existence cannot be proven mathematically, they nevertheless exist.

And You?

What are your unprovable truths?

As you ponder this question I wonder if you don’t find many (or most even) of the critically important truths in your life cannot be proven by science and math. Yet these truths exist and are probably the strongest beliefs that drive you to be the person you desire to be.

Long live that which cannot be proven!

When Asked to “Prove it!”

Just Say, “I Can’t and I Don’t Need To!”

Photo courtesy of benjaminjk at istockphoto

Worry: Imagination or Reality

September 9, 2017 by Charlie Hedges − 2 Comments

We suffer more often in imagination than in reality. Seneca, Letters from a Stoic

Here’s a test. One year ago today you were worried greatly over something very troubling. It may have even kept you up at night. It made you nervous and grouchy, afraid and angry. What was that thing that worried you so?
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Just Be Nice

August 19, 2017 by Charlie Hedges − 0 Comments

Before you know what kindness really is you must lose things…  Naomi Shihab Nye

Poet Naomi Shihab Nye and her husband were on honeymoon in rural Peru when their bus broke down and all of their belongings were stolen. They lost everything except the clothes they were wearing and a few bucks, certainly not enough to last long in a foreign country.
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Clear Your Head Cache

July 15, 2017 by Charlie Hedges − 0 Comments

“Head trash” is comprised of an enormous collection of feelings, thoughts, beliefs and experiences that you have been piling up since childhood. Your head trash is constantly reinforcing what you can’t achieve.” Jim Palmer, Just Say Yes

NOTE: For computers, “cache” is often stored history (memory) of data used on your browser.
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Lessons from The Wisdom of Trees

June 10, 2017 by Charlie Hedges − 0 Comments

One thing we know for sure about trees: they are stationary in one place for either decades or thousands of years and they understand a whole new meaning of Home. With deeply grounded roots their boughs are free to sway whichever way the wind blows without ever diverging from their core.
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Focus on What “You Can Do” and Do It!

May 27, 2017 by Charlie Hedges − 0 Comments

“Focus on what you have and what you can do instead of what you don’t have and can’t do.” Phil Keoghan on Tim Ferriss Podcast

Two phrases drive me nuts, “When I get… then I’ll…” and “If only…” Both focus on what you do not have. And you just might wait a lifetime to get that thing or person you are convinced will fill your life, only to discover that person or thing turns out to be a huge disappointment.
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When Not to “Measure” Effectiveness

May 6, 2017 by Charlie Hedges − 0 Comments

Is it possible to live our day—to embrace our day—without measuring?

The Proverb says, “There is a time for everything.” I would include measurement. In certain projects measurement is a critical means to complete a task. In certain personal categories, like finances, measurement is also essential.
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