September 16, 2018 by Charlie Hedges − 0 Comments
“At the moment, I rest easy with the notion that I don’t need to ask or answer the question “Does my life have meaning?” All I need to do is keep living…”
“… birds and trees… don’t worry about whether their lives have meaning. They simply be what they can be. Parker Palmer, On the Brink of Everything
A View from the Ferry
Here I am in Greece. Well, actually I’m on a ferry crossing the Mediterranean Sea from the island of Crete to Santorini. Reading Parker Palmer’s On the Brink of Everything, I find myself once again encouraged to ponder the meaning of life and this time coming to the conclusion that it is a futile question because the meaning of life is simply to live… simply.
August 18, 2018 by Charlie Hedges − 0 Comments
In Sapiens, Yuval Harari writes, “The mind is always dissatisfied and restless.” He continues, “We are obviously dissatisfied with pain and want to do everything to avoid it. Yet even when we experience pleasant things we are never content. We want more. Again… dissatisfied.”
I’m not so sure I agree.
August 11, 2018 by Charlie Hedges − 0 Comments
“Millions long for immortality who don’t know what to do with themselves on a rainy Sunday afternoon.” Susan Ertz
Which is it we long for, permanence or stability? Does it matter? Both are circumvented by a “constantly changing world.” Henry Miller once wrote, “… it needs to be stressed continually: all is creation, all is change, all is flux, all is metamorphosis.”
August 4, 2018 by Charlie Hedges − 0 Comments
“Whatever excites you, go do it. Whatever drains you, stop doing it.” —Derek Sivers
Vampires surround you almost every day. And they want your energy!
July 14, 2018 by Charlie Hedges − 0 Comments
A man’s friendships are one of the best measures of his worth. Charles Darwin
Few things reveal more about you than what you value or the “worth” you place on time, goods, and relationships. For example, some people spend time to buy money, as others will spend money to buy time. Still others worry less about money and the time required to attain it than they do on nurturing their replenishing relationships.
June 30, 2018 by Charlie Hedges − 2 Comments
Don’t waste time on what’s not important. Don’t get sucked into the drama. Get on with it: don’t dwell on the past. Be a big person; be generous of spirit; be the person you’d admire. Allegra Huston
Drama! Such an uninviting and irritating way to live. And yet we often find ourselves caught up in drama for a significant portion of our lives. It seems we are forced into it everywhere we turn: work, home, and significant as well as insignificant relationships easily provide grist for ongoing conflict.
June 23, 2018 by Charlie Hedges − 2 Comments
“You’re going to pay a price for every bloody thing you do and everything you don’t do.” Jordan Peterson
I am beginning to understand that one of the greatest dangers to the political health of Untied States is personal apathy. When the populous gives up or gives in without a fight for their own beliefs we are doomed to the live under the effects of the radical ultra minorities (also including the most divisive executive office since Richard Nixon).
June 9, 2018 by Charlie Hedges − 0 Comments
For good ideas and true innovation, you need human interaction, conflict, argument, and debate. Margaret Heffernan
I am, right this minute, in the middle of a very serious conflict with a major authority of another country. I am frustrated and perplexed. It consumes most of every hour (waking or sleeping) so I decided to write on it. (Sorry I can’t offer details—it would require pages.)
So, on to the complexity of conflict…
May 27, 2018 by Charlie Hedges − 2 Comments
“To be nobody-but-yourself — in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else — means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight.” E.E. Cummings
“I’m just the trying to find myself,” stands out today as the battle cry of the peace seeking hippies of the sixties and early seventies. I recall saying those very words to my sister, thirteen years my senior, on break from college at UCLA. And of course she responded with something like, “What the hell are you even talking about?”
May 12, 2018 by Charlie Hedges − 0 Comments
In order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive. Jordan Peterson
Ben Shapiro writes, “… while manners matter, truth matters more.”
Let’s be honest, we have become (or always have been) an ultrasensitive population of people that have hard time digesting “truth” (as another sees it) without taking personal offence. I guess it has pretty much always existed in the two deeply controversial subjects of politic and religion. I believe the reason is that each of these subjects mess less with our minds that with our personal identity. We have somehow married our politics and religion to our very notion of who we are as a person.